7 ways to ruin a perfect relationship… March 20, 2009
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7 ways to ruin a perfect relationship…
- No need to control your anger
- NO NEED TO LISTEN WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS SAYING
- emotionally abuse the other person
- always do something or say something that makes the other person cry
- pick the “targets” (pts which initiate the fight)
- always keep on fighting and no need to say ’sorry’ to the most important person of your life
- Finally, break the communication
And, STAY FOOL AND STAY HUNGRY.
Time Management at its best January 10, 2009
Posted by Sandeep in Time Management.Tags: goals, Love, Relationships, Time Management, values
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We have been working closely planning & organizing for this community project for quite long time, it was 13th of December when all the project stakeholders collaborated online. We were negotiating a date to jumpstart our project. Our logical plan and flow of events pointed to 29th December as the big day. Many wanted the 1st January as the great day to kick start the project, but new year celebrations and engagements were holding many of us back, including me, I had exam on 1st January.
Everyone cross-checked with their schedules and availability and zeroed on 29th as the day we will begin the project, everyone agreed in unison. As per the project charter the first phase of the community project will start with me interviewing some prominent people, delivering two presentations and issuing and executing a small survey and submitting a feasibility report by the end of two days.
I rarely consult my calendar for I am not such that busy person, but that day I had an appointment, a very important one, with my sweetheart. I had promised her a movie & dinner on that day. Without any second thoughts, I disagreed with the finalized date. Many insisted on not changing the date, so I offered my apologies and resignation from the project team and to transfer responsibility that was reposed in me.
My love, to which I put infinite value, is something that I cannot compromise with. I may derive immense pleasure by serving the community but my real source of inspiration and happiness is my love. After all a promise is a promise. This is a great lesson in time management to upset your entire schedule for reasons that may appear silly but very very important & core to your existence as an individual.
Note: 2 Days after that, on 15th December, one of the project stakeholder informed me that they agree to change the day to any day of second week of January. Happy!
Love Question: Would you return to your lover? (Win a free Book) January 4, 2009
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Hypothetical Question [?]
You are sitting with your lover on stairs in mid-night, suddenly you receive a call on your phone. You excuse yourself from the lover to attend the call and promise to return back. The call happens to be from the mother of your lover who informs you that your lover has just died in the evening. What would you do now? Will you return? What would you say?
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You want to spend rest of your life with whom? December 22, 2008
Posted by Sandeep in Relationships.Tags: Love, relationship
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After watching movie, we usually sit here and chat for few minutes before she leaves for her home. We sit on this bench and observe the crowd in front of us: sometimes we share a smile whenever we see an old couple hand-in-hand, sometime we just shy away when we see a young couple or we share a familiar naughty grin (registering the fact that we have a strong liking for them) when we see kids playing & having fun.
We don’t talk much as we both do introspection on ourselves and on our relationship. But that day she turned to me and said, “Sandeep do you know what?”, I replied “No I don’t know what?”. “I want to”, she said, “marry you.” I looked suspiciously into her eyes and mumbled, “So you have decided” try to calm down the butterflies I was having in my stomach. I mean its by sheer luck that the person whom you love the most and think is the most beautiful of all is saying you the golden words “I want to marry you”
There was this strange feeling from the past and I said, “You don’t know me, you don’t know my past.” I continued, “Maybe I was having a relationship earlier, may be that relationship didn’t work out, may be I am not virgin, may be I am not capable enough of carrying out relationships” She replied, “I am not buying a car, where mileage, previous owners & a scratch on the body work are key considerations. You are my love, first and true.”
Vote for Taj Please… June 15, 2007
Posted by Sandeep in Announcements, Whining.Tags: Love, social cause
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NATIONAL SHAME
Indians will vote 1.5 crore votes for T.V. programs like Indian Idol. But for TAJ we have given only 5 lakhs votes only. India is a country with the population of 100 crore. It is really a shame for us.
Please vote for Taj…
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Lonely but happy valentine… February 15, 2007
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Courtesy: www.gapingvoid.com
okay I have to wish, Happy valentine day to everyone… So what, if it was all lonely but it is valentine day, the day of lovers.
Happy Valentines Day February 14, 2007
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Picture Courtesy: www.gapingvoid.com
Umm… I am so lazy… I open my only one eye lid… uh where my watch is… looking for it ah… 6:30 AM in the morning. A very happy Valentines day to me. I look for light – no electricity. Quick decision in split second. I won’t be going to college. Why? No light means no electricity means no geezer means no hot water means no bathing means bad odour all the day means girls running away from me means bad valentine day. Take a breathe. I just want to say I don’t want to have bad Valentines Day.
I like sleeping, so I did until 10:00 am in the morning. After waking up, went through the regular brushing, bathing (light was back by then, damn local electricity department), changing, television, fighting (for the remote, of course) and finally getting bored. I think nothing special about this valentine day. Why these people make such hypes? I thought until my friend called me up “Hi! Dude, where are you? I am waiting in the park. Come let’s do some fun. Local guys are protesting against valentine day, why not join them?” (Our India is a country of protests; we like to protest, demonstrate, revolt continuously about something without ever stopping. Even if we have no reason, so what, we invent our own reasons. Many people say we try to ape west, and valentine day is also a part n parcel of westernization. So, on Valentines Day many people protested against it blah blah blah)
As I reached the park, a guy was distributing free posters “Stop Valentine. Save Culture”, “Say no to Valentine Day, preserve cultural values”. I grabbed one from it, and stood in a line, next to my friend, as I whispered, “Why we are here? I want to celebrate it and I am not against it.” He gave me a silly look, “Celebrate? With whom? You don’t have a girl friend” I replied, “but you have, then why are you against it. Go celebrate it with your gal” “Shut up, you idiot, I am here because I am against it. What valentine day, I have to spend my whole pocket money on buying gifts for a silly girl who keep calling me to remind that she’s my girl friend and keep crying ‘I can never understand her’.” He Explained.
Then I asked another guy, “Why on the earth you are so against the valentine day?” he explained he hates some guy and that guy has flower shop. So, during this season (i.e. valentine) his business starts booming, I want valentine day to be stopped, so his business get sucked. I discovered later on, none of them was against valentine day. Oh I forgot to introduce another guy, name not known, but he is here protesting with us because his wife really makes him sick. He just wants to time pass, so he has came here to protest.
We did lot of things, we hacked valentine cards into small pieces and burnt them, we razed buildings, burned flowers, made traffic jam and a lot like that. And when I was tired I returned home.
Sitting on bed, I picked my phone and called my girl friend, “Hello, sweet heart, happy valentines day”. LOL. I lied the last one.
To get love is to lie… February 13, 2007
Posted by Sandeep in Relationships.Tags: emotional, ideas, Love, nostalgic
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First it was a just a day, then it became week, now it is a whole month. Yes, my dear friends, ‘February’ is now termed as the ‘The Month of love’. Now, not for an hour, or day, or a week, but you have to make up various excuses to silly people, that too whole of the month, to justify why don’t you have a girl friend. Anyway, it is not the subject matter of this post.
The inspiration behind this post is a TV serial ‘Just Mohabbat’ (in Hindi, means ‘Just love’ in English) which is almost 7-8 years old. But hopefully in order to celebrate this love month, POGO channel is telecasting all of its episodes once again. When I was kid, it was my favorite TV serial which I used to watch with a lot of fervor (and emotions, feelings blah blah you understand child’s foolishness). I saw one episode in which the leading character lies to get some love. This got my attention. Is it just to lie to get love? I did a lot of introspection on that…
I have lied a many times, ok, to get love… I have lied to my teacher that project is made by me (when I copied it from internet), I lied to my mom that foodstuff is made by me for her (when I originally ordered it from the neighborhood restaurant), I have lied to many girls that I go to gym in the morning (I miserably failed at convincing them when they saw my biceps which are not even the size of a straw), I lied to my neighbor that I don’t know about his dog, when actually it was me who took the dog out of the village and left him there only (you know he was used to bark at night), I mean innumerable times I have did this. Ok enough of jokes; I want a serious viewpoint on this.
There are two viewpoints to this. 1) What if someone lies to get your love? Will you forgive him? 2) Have you ever lied to get someone’s love? (Don’t be narrow minded, love can be of anyone). You should forget the one who have lied to you, simply because he* lied to you because he loves you, he knows if he will speak the truth it will hurt you. You, including me, should not get angry if someone’s lie to us just to get our love or sympathy. Why be so angry?
Lies are not bad things… they are just the inability to accept the realities. Reality is sometime full of uncertainties… lie is one’s way of diverging from such uncertainties. After lying one become aware of the consequences, at least he knows what is going to happen. To be serious, if I ever lied it is only because I did it for someone’s benefit. Everyone says lies to save someone’s day are just fine.
*I have used ‘he’, I don’t try to be gender biased, and you can use ‘she’ if you want… 
(DAMN footnotes)
Valentines this season… January 29, 2007
Posted by Sandeep in Creativity, My Favorite.Tags: funny, Love, Valentines
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Before you move onto another blog or some other website or run away and swear never to read a blog again I would like to suggest you to continue reading this post… Well, I thought this is really interesting…
As you all know valentine day is approaching, so we will pretend that we too have got this fever. So you want to have a valentine this season? right? Read on…
I am not going to propose a new magical charm or drink that will get you a valentine perhaps we will try to invent some ideas how to get a bakra (goat) this season…
First step is to find someone. This is the most difficult part. Girls will find plenty of boys… boys boys everywhere but not a single one to propose… as for the boys… girls are also available in plenty… but already “BUSY”. Some girls already have a boyfriend, some girls don’t want any relation, some girls think friendship is cool and some girls the worst of all are already married. Anyway if you find some one, cool, if not then pretend that you are not interested in having a valentine ( 
like me)
Second and hopefully the last step is to propose? But how? Take your to-be-valentine with you on a boat (two seater would do, it is very cheap). Ask him/her “Be my valentine or jump from this boat. What you want?” If you can do it successfully (try it in the midddle of Indian ocean) you will win her. But if you are bad enough like the alien in star wars and she replies she will jump. Then you better watch out and start crying “you will die but not help a poor starving-for-valentine guy. This world is very mean. No charity nowadays” If you are intelligent enough you can try saying, “Be my valentine or I will jump?”. But this way can cost you your life. No way. Then you say to her that now you don’t want to have a valentine and will not jump for who don’t care for someone’s life. 
Through out the above paragraph I was thinking, how on this earth will you get someone to get on a boat with you? PLEASE HIM/HER. To please girls, boys can take notice. Buy her flowers, gifts, chocolates, dine her, take her on long drive, listen to her, get down on your knees and cry for her. Chances are 1% that she will get pleased 
. Girls on the other side are safe. Just smile to any boy and he will be your’s forever.
Pleasing some girl is really very difficult. Once god asked to a islander, what one wish he want? The Islander said, “please contruct a highway road between my island and the asia over the ocean”. God said, “It is very difficult, ask something else.” Islander said, “okay tell me how to please a girl” . God said, “okay, how many lanes the highway road should have?”
When pleasing someone BE SPECIFIC with your aim . Like once god asked to one person for any two wishes he want. The guy replied, “I want the best wine and best woman yet in this world”. God brought him the best wine, as for the best woman part god gave him Mother Teresa. Moral of the story: Be specific with what you want from someone.
If you are successful in pleasing someone, you are great. But if not, don’t worry many people are in your gang. As for now I have wasted lot of your time…. So bye…
Oh yes, please tell me if you are able to convince any one to be your valentine this season using my ideas. And don’t forget to comment how boring this post was. (ok I said it was interesting, but we should not believe the strangers. Isn’t it?)
Lost Wisdom January 10, 2007
Posted by Sandeep in Poetry.Tags: Love, poems
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Love is great,
like moon in haze,
law of gravition,
cannot explain,
how one fall in this game.
What foolishness,
does destiny plays,
how much fool one can become,
when all the wisdom taken,
away to make one wise decision,
oh you see the trial of love,
to make up for one broken heart,
a million of hearts has to be broken.
Written by Me
