Where we are going? May 3, 2009
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7 ways to ruin a perfect relationship… March 20, 2009
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7 ways to ruin a perfect relationship…
- No need to control your anger
- NO NEED TO LISTEN WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS SAYING
- emotionally abuse the other person
- always do something or say something that makes the other person cry
- pick the “targets” (pts which initiate the fight)
- always keep on fighting and no need to say ’sorry’ to the most important person of your life
- Finally, break the communication
And, STAY FOOL AND STAY HUNGRY.
Love Question: Would you return to your lover? (Win a free Book) January 4, 2009
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Hypothetical Question [?]
You are sitting with your lover on stairs in mid-night, suddenly you receive a call on your phone. You excuse yourself from the lover to attend the call and promise to return back. The call happens to be from the mother of your lover who informs you that your lover has just died in the evening. What would you do now? Will you return? What would you say?
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You want to spend rest of your life with whom? December 22, 2008
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After watching movie, we usually sit here and chat for few minutes before she leaves for her home. We sit on this bench and observe the crowd in front of us: sometimes we share a smile whenever we see an old couple hand-in-hand, sometime we just shy away when we see a young couple or we share a familiar naughty grin (registering the fact that we have a strong liking for them) when we see kids playing & having fun.
We don’t talk much as we both do introspection on ourselves and on our relationship. But that day she turned to me and said, “Sandeep do you know what?”, I replied “No I don’t know what?”. “I want to”, she said, “marry you.” I looked suspiciously into her eyes and mumbled, “So you have decided” try to calm down the butterflies I was having in my stomach. I mean its by sheer luck that the person whom you love the most and think is the most beautiful of all is saying you the golden words “I want to marry you”
There was this strange feeling from the past and I said, “You don’t know me, you don’t know my past.” I continued, “Maybe I was having a relationship earlier, may be that relationship didn’t work out, may be I am not virgin, may be I am not capable enough of carrying out relationships” She replied, “I am not buying a car, where mileage, previous owners & a scratch on the body work are key considerations. You are my love, first and true.”
To get love is to lie… February 13, 2007
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First it was a just a day, then it became week, now it is a whole month. Yes, my dear friends, ‘February’ is now termed as the ‘The Month of love’. Now, not for an hour, or day, or a week, but you have to make up various excuses to silly people, that too whole of the month, to justify why don’t you have a girl friend. Anyway, it is not the subject matter of this post.
The inspiration behind this post is a TV serial ‘Just Mohabbat’ (in Hindi, means ‘Just love’ in English) which is almost 7-8 years old. But hopefully in order to celebrate this love month, POGO channel is telecasting all of its episodes once again. When I was kid, it was my favorite TV serial which I used to watch with a lot of fervor (and emotions, feelings blah blah you understand child’s foolishness). I saw one episode in which the leading character lies to get some love. This got my attention. Is it just to lie to get love? I did a lot of introspection on that…
I have lied a many times, ok, to get love… I have lied to my teacher that project is made by me (when I copied it from internet), I lied to my mom that foodstuff is made by me for her (when I originally ordered it from the neighborhood restaurant), I have lied to many girls that I go to gym in the morning (I miserably failed at convincing them when they saw my biceps which are not even the size of a straw), I lied to my neighbor that I don’t know about his dog, when actually it was me who took the dog out of the village and left him there only (you know he was used to bark at night), I mean innumerable times I have did this. Ok enough of jokes; I want a serious viewpoint on this.
There are two viewpoints to this. 1) What if someone lies to get your love? Will you forgive him? 2) Have you ever lied to get someone’s love? (Don’t be narrow minded, love can be of anyone). You should forget the one who have lied to you, simply because he* lied to you because he loves you, he knows if he will speak the truth it will hurt you. You, including me, should not get angry if someone’s lie to us just to get our love or sympathy. Why be so angry?
Lies are not bad things… they are just the inability to accept the realities. Reality is sometime full of uncertainties… lie is one’s way of diverging from such uncertainties. After lying one become aware of the consequences, at least he knows what is going to happen. To be serious, if I ever lied it is only because I did it for someone’s benefit. Everyone says lies to save someone’s day are just fine.
*I have used ‘he’, I don’t try to be gender biased, and you can use ‘she’ if you want… 
(DAMN footnotes)
Types of Love May 15, 2006
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Types of love
Eros : Romantic, Passionate love based on ideal image’s of one’s partner
(“He/She is what I always wanted”)
Ludus:game playing love, playful and teasing
(“I want to see her dying for me”)
Storge: friendship love
(“We understand each other”)
Pragma: Practical, logical love; A “shopping list” approach to seeking love
(“I want love that is blah blah blah…)
Mania:Possessive; dependent love
(“I can’t live without you”)
Agape:selfless, altruistic love, put partner’s interests above own.
(“I don’t care about myself; I want my partner’s happiness”)
(In case you prefer more than one type of love don’t forget to comment it out)
